First of all i'm sorry to hear abt u r facing the hardest time of life n i would like to giving u all my best wishes n sympathy.Secondly i'm making a clarification of my comment though my words may b too harsh 4 u but it came fr good intention also pls don't claim that i'm blaming on u.Fortunately Oldie hv a good home that's the outcome we all 12 see right?At last once again sorry to u n no hard feeling pls.God Bless.