Blackey passed away suddenly yesterday, while undergoing treatment at the vet’s. We extend our deepest condolences to Sha and hope she will be comforted that Blackey’s suffering is now over and that she is in a better place.
When death happens, the deceased’s suffering is over. And ours begin. Here’s when we have to give ourselves time to grieve, to accept the reality, to heal and to move on. All this takes time, and there is no point urging a grieving person to let go when one is not ready to let go. As humans, we need to grieve and we must be given time and space to do so.
We share Sha’s loss and grief, and we wish Blackey a good life now, in a better place.
This is from Sha (Wan Rozima), in memory of Blackey:
Im still grieving over Blackey. It was a shocking news.
My first thought was the vet should have noticed. But there is no point trying to figure it out. They missed it.I remember before I left the clinic, I told the doctor to look at the scar on the tummy. On that time, we both agreed that it looked pretty normal only a small amount of fluid draining from the surgical wound. The vet promised to give her antibiotics. Thats it. Nothing to worry, so did I. I didn’t believe it could happen this way, silent killer.
All the reports, calls were looking good. I was shocked when I heard it yesterday. By the time the vet told me she vomited blood and has collapsed, further inspection they found the tummy area was ulcerating and swollen. Then I knew it was too late to do anything. But thanks to them for trying, I bet they tried their best. Thanks a lot.
The only regret, I had no chance to meet her and talk to her in her final days. I wish I could have been there when she needed me the most.I wish I could have done more for her. I block my calendar on May 25thto visit her but
She was so sweet and constantly received compliments on how well behaved she was especially from vets. Although I only knew her for a short time before her death but she had a very special place in my heart. I will miss the good times I had with her. I loved her a lot.
I will miss her terribly. She’s no longer suffering, and she is in a better place now. May you rest in peace, Blackey love and kisses. You were the most wonderful cat, and will always be missed.
Source: http://myanimalcare.org/2012/05/09/in-loving-memory-of-blackey-from-sha-her-caregiver/
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